This is a powerful technique that can be used in a variety of ways—it can help you to make an impression on your crush, land the job of your dreams, and even help you to find a romantic partner.Where you smile at someone and make them realize that you are smiling just by looking at them. In the “Sticky Eyes” technique, there is a strong sense of intimacy and connection between you and the other person. Another deep form of “sticky eyes” is “epoxy eyes”, where you focus more on your target than on the person in front of you. This makes your target feel that all your attention is on their reaction and you really care about their words.
But remember that you should not use the “epoxy eyes” technique too much because it can be too intense for someone close to you. And when it comes to posture, the “hang by your teeth” technique will remind you to smile wherever you go, keep your shoulders straight, and keep your head up, not low, like you’re performing in a circus. going to do. And lastly, “The Big Baby Pivot” helps us deal with others like a small child vying for our attention. So you have to give them a big smile and do some funny things.
How to Make Your Smile Magically Different
People say that non-verbal hints are as important as verbal hints. Perhaps this is the reason why it is said that “First Impressions Last” i.e. the impression one gets in the first meeting with someone is always remembered. And this is true to a large extent. Whatever way you carry yourself, your personality becomes the same in the eyes of the person in front of you. Robert Grossman is a famous caricature artist and who can understand this better than him. He accurately captures the personality of the people through his drawings. However, he does not know anything about the personal life of the people whose caricatures he makes.
Robert sees it in such a way that personality is not reflected only by words, but a lot can be known about that person by one’s gestures, posture and movements. Robert takes this important factor into account while making caricatures, perhaps that’s why Bert’s art looks so real and personal. While making a deal with someone, it is very important to pay attention to his movements, only then you will know whether your work will be successful or not. Start every communication with a smile. It is our misconception that smiling is not necessary, especially when it comes to leadership, influence or charisma, but believe me, your smile can change a lot. People like smiling faces. Although the author noticed that those who are big people such as CEOs and leaders, these people smile very less, but when they smile, others also smile with them.
There are so many responsibilities on these respected people that they forget to smile. When it comes to your smile, don’t let it show easily on your face. Here you will have to learn the “Fluding Smile” technique. In this technique, while talking to someone, give a slight smile while looking at him. Then keep looking at the face of the person in front of you for a few seconds and then give him a nice smile. This will make you look more sincere in the eyes of the person in front of you.
Leil Lowndes once joined his friend Missy who was meeting three of her potential clients for dinner. Missy had just taken over the family business after her father’s death. Lil was quite excited to meet Missy. Lil still remembered Missy’s big smile and her habit of laughing heartily. When Missy was talking to her potential clients, Lil noticed a change in Missy. Yes, she was his earlier friend Missy but now she was looking more sincere than before.
The dinner is over and Missy gets a deal for her clients. Lil told Missy that you are still the same Missy but you have changed a bit. So Missy said yes, now she smiles less than before. Before his death, his father had told him that in the corporate world, a lady who smiles less is considered more professional. Of course a smile is an asset but what makes Missy more credible is her slow smile. And Lil also found this thing very effective because Missy was now looking more sincere and special.
Strike Everyone as Intelligent and Insightful by Using Your Eyes
Although eye contact means talking by looking into the eyes is considered a good thing, but many people derive different meanings from it. In some cultures, it is considered witchcraft, while in some cultures, eye contact means that we are threatening or insulting the person in front of us. Therefore, wherever you go, if you behave according to the culture of that place, it will be better. Traveling is a different matter, apart from this, strong eye contact is considered very important in the corporate world. And if it is a matter of romance, then it cannot be done without eye contact.
When your eyes meet someone, there is a mutual feeling of respect and attention. But when you stare at someone, it can trigger biological base, that is, that person’s heart beat will increase and he will get a little tense. It feels just like this when someone is in love with someone. When you make eye contact, people also get attracted towards you. Lil Lowndes also experienced that eye contact is crucial but not in the way he expected.
Once she was doing a seminar where many people were there. Then Lil’s eyes collided with a lady. That lady was staring at him for a long time. Even for a minute his eyes did not take off from Lil. Lil liked the attention of that lady, so after the seminar was over, she went to that lady. Lil asked him “did you learn anything from your seminar”? So that lady said that she didn’t understand much because she can’t hear properly so she was reading Lil’s lips. But even in this she was finding it difficult because Lil was lecturing while walking on the stage and was changing direction again and again. Lil was so impressed by the words of that lady that he made that lady sit beside him and explained the entire lecture again. And that lady understood very well.
There is another technique of eye contact which is called “Sticky Eyes”. You have to imagine that your eyes are stuck to your partner’s eyes like something is stuck to glue. When he is finished, don’t break eye contact immediately, but slowly move your eyes away as if you are slowly pulling a thread of glue. By the way, both men and women apply the “Sticky Eyes” technique in different ways.
When women talk to each other, both of them rate that experience as positive, that is, normally two women feel a feeling of intimacy while talking to each other. While two men do not feel as close to each other while talking. The longer their eye contact remains, the more both remain in a threat or alert situation with each other. So to bring a little change to the “Sticky Eyes” technique for men, we will read Sammy’s story.
Men have a slightly different “sticky eyes” technique than women. To find out more about this, Lil decided that she would ask a salesman, Sammy, to perform this technique. Sammy had a habit of hurting people unintentionally. His aura was cold, so Lil suggested him to apply this technique.
Lil and Sammy go to a restaurant together. There Sammy used technique on the waiter. Instead of just looking at the menu and ordering, this time he made eye contact with the waiter. While giving a smile to the waiter, he kept looking intently into his eyes. At that time Sammy seemed like a caring and sensitive person. Very impressed with Lil Sammy. This technique changed the entire look of Sammy. So if a person has to meet a client, or have a discussion with a boss or colleague, use the sticky eyes technique with a big smile. Due to this, the person in front will not feel bad and will also consider you sincere and you will also be able to convince him easily.
How to Use Your Eyes to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
If we have the “Sticky Eyes” technique, there is also the “Epoxy Eyes”. Epoxy is a one sided glue which we use to stick strong materials like wood or concrete. You can consider “epoxy eyes” as an upgraded version of sticky eyes. Many professionals such as lawyers, bosses, police and psychologists use this technique to know about the personality of a person.
Even the people of the Human Resources Department apply this technique to see the reaction of the employees on a certain idea or principle. But what is “epoxy eye” after all? Well, three people are needed to apply this technique. Means you, your target and another person. By the way, when you are talking to two or more people, then your attention does not go much on who is speaking.
However with epoxy eyes you do not focus on the speaker but on the other listener which is your target. So it will confuse the target. He will wonder why you are looking at him so intently instead of the speaker. This technique is especially more effective when you are in a party or in a group dinner or in a bar. Your target will feel special in your eyes. And he can feel this thing even in the crowd that all your attention is only for him. And you will also know at the same moment whether the person in front is taking interest in you or not.
You can use “epoxy eyes” in work setting. Like if you change the work hours of your employees and want to see their reaction. Imagine that you are the Big Boss. You can ask the Human Resource Manager to gather all the employees in a room and inform them about the company’s decision. And when the HR manager is talking, you look at the face of the employees.
If they are listening carefully, they will be surprised that you are looking at them instead of the HR manager. If you feel that the employees are looking uncomfortable, then once in a while put your eyes on the HR manager. Now when the HR manager will give him the bed news that the company is making him work in night shift instead of day shift. You can see the reaction of everyone present in the room. This will let your employees know that their reaction is being monitored that they are not happy with this decision of the company.
Now let’s talk about the romantic setting. The “epoxy eyes” technique can melt anyone’s heart. It gives a message that you are very impressed with the person in front and cannot take your eyes off him. Eye contact also works for your body. When you gaze deeply into someone’s eyes, a drug-like substance called phenylethylamine is released in your body.
The same substance is also released in the state of erotically excitement, so eye contact helps lovers to turn on the mood. But remember that “Epoxy Eyes” should be taken in a positive way i.e. you should use it only on your lover. If you try on a stranger then there can be a problem. It is true that “epoxy eyes” can increase your confidence, but applying it too much can also make you look arrogant. If you feel that “epoxy eyes” is giving too strong effect, then reduce it a bit. Instead of focusing full attention on your target, look at the speaker in between. In this way, your attention to your target will not be as intense.
Like a Big Winner Wherever You Go
We all want to consider ourselves the owner of million dollars. When we are in a good mood or something strange happens, our behavior and personality change. Of course we may not know but other people definitely notice. When you feel like a winner, your head is held high and your shoulders are straight. A smile appears on your face and eyes start shining with happiness. But you don’t have to wait for an opportunity to feel like a winner. You can practice a winner’s attitude without winning anything. Actually there is a glow of confidence on the face of the winners and they stand with a dignity. His confidence reflects in his posture.
If you want to look like someone else, then you have to carry yourself like that. This technique is called “hang by your teeth”. When Lil Lowndes was a child, she got inspired by watching a circus. The Wallendas were famous circus performers and their best act was the Human Pyramid. When Wallendas made a human pyramid on a thin wire several solar feet above the ground, everyone’s breath stopped. And if the pyramid broke, there was no net below to save them. This act was worth watching.
Lil noted that her posture was perfect. The “hang by your teeth” technique is also similar. It is derived from Iron Jaw which is a tool used by acrobats to perform stunts in the air without any safety harness. An acrobat grasps Iron Jaw, which is tied to a ceiling rope. Then with the help of this tool it moves gracefully in the air. You also have to think exactly like this. Imagine an iron jaw hanging over your head. Just keep holding this iron jaw with your teeth and keep smiling big. This iron jaw will keep your head high and your shoulders straight. With the help of this technique, you will get a feeling of confidence, pride and success in yourself.
Leil Lowndes was quite impressed with the perfect performance of Actobates and at the same time, she was also amazed at how the performers presented themselves in a perfect way. Wallendas used to stand in a line after their act. And when people used to praise him by clapping, he bowed his head together and thanked him. Lil noticed that they all had their backs straight, heads held high and chins up. The Wallendas used to stand straight in such a way that it seemed that their feet were not on the ground. A feeling of pride and success was visible from every part of his body. And everyone’s admiring glance was fixed on him. You too can be like Wallendas. No, we are not saying that you have to become an acrobat, but you too can bring confidence and grace like him.
To Win Their Heart by Responding to Their “Inner Infant”)
Till now you have learned those techniques by applying which you can bring an improvement in the attitude of people for you. So now is the time to learn that on which side people judge you. In the real world it is very difficult to tell who likes you and who doesn’t. And it cannot happen that you keep asking this question to everyone that “do you like me or not”. Rather, you have to understand this thing yourself by reading their body language. Attorneys often focus on people’s instinctive body reactions.
That is, they pay attention to the face and gestures of the people. Like, did he lean forward on his question? Are your palms open, which shows that you express what is being discussed, or are your fists clenched, which means that you disagree? Trial lawyers often take the help of ladies to observe someone because women understand body language better than men. But to do all this we do not need to be a lawyer or an attorney. Whenever a new person comes in your life, we ask ourselves whether we should trust that person or not. That’s why the time of a few months of meeting someone is very crucial because your reaction is the foundation of your relationship.
For example, if a child is shy, then we come to know because he will hide behind his mother or cover his face. But as soon as the child sees his father, he runs away and hugs him. Lil Lowndes treats the child’s body like a small flower that blossoms with the light of the sun. We can learn this technique from children which is called “The Big Baby Pivot”. Whoever meets you should feel good meeting you. Smile at them and give them your full attention just like a child who caresses you, hugs you.
The Big Baby Pivot” technique will make the person in front feel special and people will be drawn towards you. A few years ago, Lil went to a corporate party, accompanied by her recently divorced friend Carla. Carla was a very attractive lady. Many people were watching her at the corporate party. Some people smiled seeing Carla, and in return Carla also smiled. But he did not give any hint to anyone. She was busy talking with Lil. Although Carla was interested in talking to someone, she was afraid that maybe no one would approach her.
Then Willie, the younger son of the host of the party, came up to her and Carla gave him a big smile. When he asked Willie are you enjoying the party? So Willie was very happy because he was getting attention. Later he went to someone else and started talking to him. When Carla and Lil got engrossed in their conversation again, Lil noticed that now some other people were also looking at Carla. He was waiting when Carla would also turn and look at him. So Lil tells Carla to use “The Big Baby Pivot” technique.
He told Carla that now whoever next person smiles seeing her, she should also give him a big smile and start the conversation. Just like Willie did. He should also give full attention to the people. Carla got encouragement after listening to Lil’s talk. Carla tried Lil’s plan and soon she befriended a handsome boy. During the whole party, both of them kept talking and at the end of the party, Carla left the party holding the hand of her new friend.